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Why is being an adult so confusing?

As an adult do you ever have those days, weeks, or months where you just stop and think, what am I doing with my life? I’ve been thinking this quite a bit over the last few months. It’s not that I feel unaccomplished, or sad about things, but I just don’t know what paths I want to keep going down, or things I want to pursue. 

Why is being an adult so confusing? 

Can I go back in time when the most I thought about was what I was going to wear that day to school? Where’s the Doc when you need him! Am I right? 

Why is being a grown up so confusing? | East Valley Moms Blog

As I’ve been thinking more and more about this, I started to realized that maybe I just really don’t know myself anymore. Maybe I’m so darn confused because I need to find myself again. That might make things less confusing if I knew what my own likes, and dislikes are.  I spend so much time trying to figure out everyone else’s that I never put myself in the front. 

To answer my own question: why is being an adult so confusing? 

Right now, I haven’t taken time for self reflection, I never ask myself questions or take the time to figure out what I want. 

Why is being an adult so confusing? | East Valley Moms Blog

I feel its okay to be confused now and then but I have 12 questions I want to answer for myself. I hope that these questions will help me figure some things out and can help someone else too. 

  1. What do I love most about myself?
  2. How can I show myself more love?
  3. What is something I love doing even when I am tired or rushed? Why?
  4. What do I need to let go of?
  5. What am I most grateful for right now?
  6. What do I want my legacy to be?
  7. What is one failure that turned into my greatest lesson?
  8. How do I add value to the world and those around me?
  9. How have I been getting in the way in achieving my goals?
  10. What is something that is true for me no matter what?
  11. What makes me feel nourished on all levels? ( mind, body, spirit)
  12. What is my top goal right now? What is the first step to get there? 

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